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So, you have your eye on a dude you’ve met, and you do everything you can do to make him notice you. You “accidentally” end up at the same places he is, put yourself in his line of vision dressed seductively and try to initiate conversations… and he barely seems to notice you. If this sounds like you, it seems that you are doing things the wrong way and need a little advice on how to really spark attraction in a dude .

Christian Carter has some very true-ringing dating advice that will absolutely help you get his attention, and keep it. Getting his attention, and making him want you begins the moment you meet him. If you blow it at the very beginning, he will more than likely write you off. You see, what a dude needs is to view you as the type of woman he wants to be with romantically, not just another woman who he wants to be friends with.

But how can you make that connection happen? As counterintuitive as this may be - wearing provocative clothes and lavishing him with attention is not going to do it. In fact, that is a road that will lead you straight to failure with men – because THAT IS NOT WHAT SPARKS Natural and Lasting Attraction for men. How is this possible? Well, consider that most of the things you think you know about men are probably wrong.

Men men are attracted to ladies who are sassy, intelligent ,and choosey about who they date. You can set the stage by actually pretending that you are NOT attracted to him, acting rather blasé and non-committal. ESPECIALLY if he is very hot . This will spark his interest because most ladies really try to get the attention of men, not let the dude ’s attention come to them! Christian Carter also says you can give him a hard time in a teasing, flirty way, and he will find it enticing. Play a little hard to get, bust on him a little and try to show him that you are NOT easy to get. The trick to maintaining this interest is making him feel like you want him, but that you aren’t 100% available. He should have to work to interest YOU.

Christian Carter goes on to expound on this in his Natural and Lasting Attraction program (yes, he actually built a program around this, and it is AWESOME) – saying that what you need to do in order to spark his interest is several things, but among them - you should not do is tell him how much you like him, or ask him how he feels about you. This will turn him off immediately, because it makes you look needy and insecure. Men are not attracted to ladies who seem clingy or needy. If you put out the signals that this is how you are, you will drive him away for good. The key to maintaining his interest is to keep him in suspense. If he is always wondering how you feel, then he will want to know.

More dating advice is DO NOT make the same mistakes girls everywhere make- giving too much too quickly, (as in sex), smothering him (as in YOUR time is valuable – when he asks you out, tell him you are busy that night and plan for another night!), and trying to please him (you are YOUR OWN person, do what YOU want!). Men enjoy the thrill of the hunt, and they want to be made to chase you. Let him. Spark that Natural and Lasting Attraction!

Remember though, that catching his attention is the FIRST big challenge, the second one is maintaining his interest once you have it. Christian Carter helps ladies to understand the key points that allow you to develop a NATURAL attraction between you and your man that will allow you to maintain it throughout your relationship in his Natural and Lasting Attraction program, which can help YOU as well!